Heart Like a Dog

The Good, the Bad, and the Oh My God of living with dogs!

Two Dogs, Five Teenagers and a Three-Year Old…(Day One Hundred and Nine)

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Before I get to the real blogging, I have to say, that Delilah had a damn near perfect agility run today!!  We had a fun time at class and then we came home and had a birthday party, for my niece Taylor who turned 17 today! Happy Birthday Taylor!!

Happy 17th Birthday Taylor

When Taylor asked if she could bring some friends over I immediately said, “Of course.”   Then I started to get a little nervous because it has been so long since I’ve had more than one teenager in the house, plus my grandchildren would be here and I wasn’t sure how it would all shake out.  Then after the incident with the dog and the child at Thursday night’s obedience class I got a little nervous.

Naturally there was food involved, so we had to be on our toes with Delilah, I caught her in the chip bowl once and then stopped her from devouring a pizza box, but all in all I would say it was a fairly successful event. 

We have a good-sized house with a decent size common area, still our normal family life is very quiet, whenever we add a bunch of people to the mix, I can get a little anxious about the dogs.  But the dogs got along well with everyone.  Hannah took a real shine to Sampson and my niece is convinced he is the best dog in the world :-).

 I’ve blogged a bit about new experiences for your dogs, but there are also experiences where they may be out of their “comfort zone”  even in their own home.  Such as was the case today, so I wanted to be certain we didn’t have any incidents and that the dogs didn’t get stressed out.  Thankfully, it all worked out fine, I had a great time with the kids, found them to be funny, interesting and extremely intelligent;  towards the end of the party we all went into my room to check out a video Taylor had made and within a few minutes, the dogs had joined in as well.  

Hannah, Johan, Isaac, Nicole, Taylor and the "Puppies."

All in all I would rate this as a success and the dogs may have just made some new facebook and twitter friends.

New Experiences….(Day One Hundred, Eighteen)

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Last night at obedience class we were joined by a woman, her husband and her grand-daughter, along with their Rottweiler.  They joined our class because when the grand-daughter cries, their dog becomes aggressive and won’t let anyone near her in order to comfort her.  

We were a little bit late to class due to indulging in the fabulous St. Patrick’s Day feast that my mom prepared, so when we got there, class was already in progress.  My heart sank a bit when I saw the little girl in line with her “Mimi” next to the dog.  Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for having children learning how to act around pets, but let’s face it, most of the people are there for a reason and you don’t know how someone else’s dog will react. 

This is how the evening progressed, Mimi and the child were walking their dog; at some point the child sat down with Grandpa while Mimi continued to work the dog.  The child decided she needed her Mimi and began to cry quite loudly; at this point one of the large dogs (with his owner) approached the area where the child and grandfather were sitting and the dog lunged at the child.  

Thank God Sara was there and the owner was quick on the take, the dog was “Downed” and Sara quickly gave the command “Down your dog;” which we all promptly did.  The situation was handled very quickly but could easily have gotten out of control. 

So what prompted the dog to react in that manner?  Truthfully, I think the dog was terrified.  The dog has never been around small children and all of a sudden here is something that is making an acute, high-pitched noise.  In the wild this would be seen as a threat and the natural response to a threat is to attack.  I don’t think the dog saw the child and thought, “Oh look a tasty little morsel, I’ll wait until I get close and then I’ll eat it.”  The dog heard the noise and as he approached the little girl, the noise got louder, he could tell where the noise was coming from acted like a dog; because he IS a dog. 

Obviously you cannot prepare your dog or yourself for every situation that might ever arise, however I do believe that we can expose our dogs to as many different experiences as possible and try to do so in a manner where we maintain control.  In my opinion the earlier you can expose your dog to various situations the better, but as more and more people rescue dogs, that isn’t always an option.  

What it means as a dog owner/lover is to think ahead when you will be exposing your dog to something new and think, how might Fido react to this and how you can prepare yourself and your pet so that your new experience is a good experience!

Front, Come, Here…they all mean the same thing (Day One Hundred and Seven)

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There is no doubt in my mind that my dogs understand (at least in part) what I am saying to them; (which is why we say “W” for walk.)  Just how many words a dog truly understands depends upon the researcher, I have heard anywhere from 160 words to over 250!  I think there are some words that are very important for your dog to understand and these words will be your verbal commands.  You may also want to combine your training with a non-verbal a.k.a hand signals or silent commands.  If I have a hand signal for my command, I use the hand signal when I say the verbal.  If you have been doing this, try not saying anything and just using the hand signal and see what your response is.

 Just as there are varying opinions on how many words your pet understands, there are also varying opinions on what commands your dog should know.  In my mind there are some that are very important and I would like to share those with you here and (in my opinion) how and when you should use them. 

“Sit” – The most basic of the commands, and usually the easiest to teach, this means, “Put your butt on the floor/ground.” I use this command when I am feeding them; when someone is coming in the door, or when we are on walks and a car is approaching (with the hope that if for some reason my dog is EVER without me on the road, it will prevent him from getting hit by a car.) (Non-verbal is a closed fist.) 

“Down” – The command means, “Lie down,” we use this for when we are eating dinner and we do not want the dogs sitting at our sides waiting for scraps of food.   (Non-verbal is my hand palm side down, moving from about waist height down to hip level.) 

“Stay” – This means “You sit or lie where I tell you to, and you stay there until I say you get up.”  This command is important if you are bringing groceries into the house or putting them in the car and you don’t want your dog outside without you. (Non-verbal is hand palm side down, at about waist height.) 

“Wait” – Similar to stay, with the exception being “You will be allowed to participate just not yet,” most times my dogs are in the car without their leashes, when I stop and want to take them out of the car, I tell them to “Wait” this command has prevented many dogs from dashing out a door and getting hit by a car. (Non-verbal is hand with the palm side facing the dogs; like a stop sign.) 

“Place” – Our dogs lie on mats while we are eating dinner, we refer to these mats as “Place” when we sit down to eat we give each dog a treat, when we are done with dinner and they are released, we reward them each with a couple of carrots.  Sampson is so conditioned sometimes when we take the plates out of the cupboard; he automatically goes to his “place.”  Delilah hasn’t progressed that far yet. (I usually point with my finger and then say, “Stay” giving the hand command for stay.) 

Delilah on her "Place."

 

“Come” “Here” or “Front” – This command is a matter of preference, I use “Here” but my dogs will also respond to “Come.”  This means, come back from wherever you are and whatever you are doing and “Check in” with me.  Usually I am rewarding them for returning; especially if we are on the trail. (Non-verbal is me tapping the upper part of my chest a couple of times with my palm, sometimes I will just crook my finger at Sampson.) 

“Ok!”  – This is their release command, it means “We’re done” and you’re free to do whatever you want (within reason of course.)  I usually clap my hands, give them rubbies and tell them “Good Job!” 

“Crate” or “Kennel”  – What it means is “Get in your crate,” my dogs spend very little time in their crate at this stage, but if you have a new puppy or dog, it is a good basic command to teach.  What you call this is your personal preference, some people also say, “Kennel up.” (My hand signal is pointing into the crate.) 

“Leash”  – This means I need your leash on you, because I want you to stay with me.  I do not (as of yet, have a non-verbal command for this.)

“Heel” – The command means you should come and sit by my side,  most people heel their dogs on their left side but some heel to the right, depending on your preference and your dogs.  I will slap my left hand against the side of my leg as my non-verbal command.  Normally you would combine Heel with:

“Walk” or “With Me” – This means you will walk alongside me wherever we are going.  I do not have a non-verbal for this.

“STOP” or “NO” – To me this is one of if not THE most important command, it means what it says, the way I taught Sampson was NO/STOP and directed him away from whatever it was he was doing (Delilah is still learning this one.)  Once he got out of the car and saw a big black crow sitting in the road, his natural instinct was to go after it and he took off, but he did not see the car that was zooming down the hill; I screamed “Sampson, “STOP” and he put the skids on, and stopped himself just as his front feet hit the road. 🙂  I think this command saved my dog.

Of course you must find a word that you are comfortable with, that will also be easily remembered by both you and your pet. 🙂

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