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Heavens To Murphy!

January 9, 2012 By Jodi

Today’s post is about a dog named Murphy.   Murphy is a yellow lab who sometimes goes to daycare with Sampson and Delilah.

When I first met Murphy I thought she was about seven or eight years old.  Why?  Because Murphy looks like she is much older.  For one thing, she has that spread that a lot of labs get in their later years. 🙁

Murphy’s mom (K) absolutely adores Murphy, so she denies her nothing.  K told me that Murphy only gets one cup of kibble twice per day, but her problem is the treats.  When Murphy comes to K for food, K gives her treats.

K and her husband are both older folks, I can’t guess people’s ages anymore but I would say K is somewhere in her 60’s.   K has absolutely no control over Murphy because Murphy has K wrapped around her tail.

About 6 weeks ago I found out K had been cited for not keeping Murphy under control.

When I ran into K at daycare she told me what happened.  K was walking Murphy and she saw a woman with a dog approaching.  She could tell by the ‘look of the dog’ it was a pit bull, and she is terrified of pit bulls, so she froze.

The approaching woman sensed her panic and said, “Perhaps we should cross the street,” which she did.

As the woman and her dog crossed the street, K isn’t really sure what happened but Murphy took off after and bit the other dog.   So K got a ticket and was warned about Murphy’s aggression.

I always want to be respectful of other people and their dogs, so I said, “Can I be honest with you?”

“Oh yes, of course” was her response.

I outright told her that Murphy is overweight and perhaps because she is overweight she doesn’t feel well.  K acknowledged Murphy was overweight and that is when she told me her problem with treats.

We discussed K bringing Murphy to our Thursday night drop in obedience class, so K could get some help with managing Murphy.

K said she would try to get Murphy to class but they only have one car and her husband has activities on Thursday nights.

We never saw K at class.

During last week’s Thursday night obedience class I was filling Sara in on my little New Year’s Eve fall.  Sara had a story of her own to share.

K was in the hospital with a fractured skull because Murphy had knocked her down on one of their walks.  Apparently Murphy stayed right next to K on the sidewalk until someone came along and  K was able to stay conscious long enough to tell the good Samaritan where to take Murphy.

Last I heard she was expected to be released soon, and the Dr. has told her she can no longer walk Murphy.  I wonder what will happen and if this fall is enough of a wake-up call for K.

Do you have any thoughts or suggestions that might encourage K to do the right thing for Murphy?  I really think she’s a sweet dog.

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Team Delilah

January 8, 2012 By Jodi

Tonight Hubby was back, so I decided to test my theory.

I let Sampson and Delilah sit on the edges of the kitchen while I got their snacks together and Hubby and I readied our dinners.

When I was ready I called the dogs and together we walked into the living room where I put them in their downs in front of the couch.

Hubby came in and we gave them their treats and we ate our dinners.  Neither one of them moved.  They stayed through the entire meal until they were released.

So my theory is that Delilah doesn’t want to miss the action.  I cannot as yet come up with a reason for her moving and getting up while we are eating, but for tonight it didn’t happen!

Score one for Team Delilah.

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Whaddaya Think?

January 7, 2012 By Jodi

I have an observation to share.

I’ve mentioned before how Sampson and Delilah must lie on mats while we eat dinner.  A typical night starts like this.

Either Hubby or myself brings them into the living room, (yes we eat in front of the tv) and tells them place.  If it’s me, I wait patiently while Delilah decides when she will “down.”  If Hubby is the one placing her, he stands towering over her, hands on hips demanding that she down.  Once both dogs are in the down, we tell them “Stay.” 

We go into the kitchen and prepare our plates, we also get some carrots and a couple of biscuits for the dogs.  When we get back to the living room, Delilah has moved.  She is still near or partially on her mat, but the fact is that she has moved and is no longer where we left her, when put her there and said “Stay!”

We give S & D the two biscuits and sit down to eat our dinner, somewhere after this point Delilah will 1) stand up and stretch, placing her two front feet forward and down while her back end goes up in the air or 2) just stand up and attempt to move.  This infuriates Hubby who will glare and point and if necessary tower over her again until she lays back down.  Meanwhile I sit there and roll my eyes.

When dinner is done, Hubby will give the release word which in our house is “OK.”  Sometimes if we don’t eat fast enough Delilah will whimper, whine or sigh.

This scenario takes place night after night in our house.

Except for last night.  Last night Hubby had one of his Christmas parties.  He was gone after work and dinner was just me…and the dogs.

Here’s what happened.

When my dinner was ready, I grabbed my dinner, a couple of biscuits and a bag with some small treats in it that I would use instead of carrots.  I went into the living room and using the biscuits as the lure, I put Sampson and Delilah in a down position. 

I sat down and started eating my dinner.  About five minutes into my dinner, Sampson got up and curled up on the couch.  A few minutes later Delilah got up and went into her crate.  And that’s where they stayed.

For the entire time I was eating, and I took my time.

When I was done, I said “Ok, it’s time for dinner.”  I picked up the bag of treats and my dishes and went into the kitchen, where I fed them.  I didn’t even use the 2nd set of treats to release them, I just said “Ok, it’s time for dinner.”

When Hubby came home, I told him I thought he was the problem with her.  (And really My Inner Bitch was very gleeful, although my Outer Self was very dignified throughout the telling of the story.)  The trouble is I don’t know how to fix it. 🙁

So whaddaya think?

I think this is the Saturday morning blog hop hosted by Two Little Cavaliers, Life With Dogs and Confessions of the Plume.  You can get your code here.  Hop on if you choose. 🙂

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jodiHi, my name is Jodi. Thanks for stopping by and checking out my blog! I have all kinds of fun writing about my two crazy pups, Sampson and Delilah. Find out more!

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